Solo polyamory — a practice of polyamorous relationships in which a person keeps their autonomy and does not aim for a shared household or the status of a “primary” couple.
What it means
Solo polyamorists often value personal freedom and autonomy: they live separately, do not combine finances and do not build a hierarchy where one partner would be the “main” one. This does not mean loneliness or that the relationships are not serious — the connections can be deep, long and very meaningful. It is simply that the person considers themselves the center of their own life and builds relationships around that foundation. This approach suits those who cherish independence, personal space, or simply do not want to merge their life with someone according to the “couple as a unit” template. Solo polyamory emphasizes that a full life does not have to begin with having a partner.
Example
Marina is dating several people, lives alone and does not plan to move in with any of her partners. She values her independence, but at the same time treats every connection seriously and with care.
Related terms
Polyamory, Hierarchical polyamory, Ethical non-monogamy
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