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Open relationship

Open relationship — a model in which the couple remains the main connection, but partners agree on the possibility of physical intimacy with other people.

What it means

Most often an open relationship keeps one central couple and allows outside contact under agreed-upon rules. The key difference from cheating is transparency and mutual agreements rather than secrecy. The format can be very different: some share in detail what happens, while others follow a “don’t ask, don’t tell” principle. Open relationships usually emphasize physical intimacy with others, while the emotional center stays within the couple — this often sets them apart from polyamory. For this model to work, it is important for partners to check in regularly: rules can change over time, and that is normal.

Example

Partners decide that each may go on dates separately, but they always keep their Friday evening at home for each other. Such a rule helps preserve a sense of closeness and the couple’s priority.

Ethical non-monogamy, Swinging, Monogamy


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